GOT MARRIED AS A VIRGIN 🙈
. (EPISODE 1)
Hmmm! God, please have mercy on my marriage. This is too much for me to handle.
I said wiping off my😭 tears, you chose Tee Jan for me to marry, I didn’t choose him based on my own feelings and decision, but I waited on you for him.
The reason why he’s behaving like this, is exactly what I don’t know.
I have been married to Tee Jan for the past 2 years, but could you believe Tee Jan has never touched me?
The least he does is to hug me and kiss my forehead. I guessed you are surprised by that, please don’t be for he never did, not even for once.
I wonder how we gonna produce a baby!
During my courtship with Tee Jan, I noticed he was never a touchy person. I wasn’t bothered since initially I don’t believe in intimacy before marriage and also we have both agreed on Virginity Till Marriage.
Every moment with Tee Jan was a good and interesting one back then, even when I tried to instigate what’s not, he will be like, babe the Bible says this and that.
I was very excited at that and I thought I was very lucky to have someone like him🙆.
But I was totally wrong, for reality dawned on me really hard when we got married.
We had an elaborate wedding then, and guess what? it was heaven on earth.
We left the reception even before it ended, for we were very tired and exhausted.
We headed straight to one of the godly hotels around, on getting there the room given to us was already decorated with candles and roses.
I guessed Tee Jan had booked the hotel without letting me know about it.
I was standing right at the door, lost in my thoughts, guess what I was thinking?
Yes! That’s exactly what I was thinking , it’s not easy to stay pure till marriage !
I was still fantasizing on how Tee Jan will make me scream and sing the song of Zion, when his sweet tiny voice jilted me out of my thought, for he said😭:
Tee Jan: My love! What are you thinking about? Please come inside, he said coming towards me.
Me: Hmmmm! Sweetie! nothing oooo, I can’t just imagine it, I said smiling.
Tee Jan: The Lord is in control of everything my love. He said and sat at the edge of the bed to off his shoes.
Me: Yes ! He has been in control since the start of our relationship , so why will he want to back off now?
He’s not an author of confusion and He will never start what He can’t finish sweetie. I said still smiling.
After I had put off my wedding gown, I told Tee Jan, let go and have our bath in the bathroom and he said, don’t worry love, I will use the other one over there.
I was shocked, how can an hotel be having two bathrooms?
I murmured silently under my breath.
Oh! I forgot its a godly hotel, and so what? That thing inside of me answered.
Noo! That can’t happen sweetie, let share the same bathroom together . After all, we have been pronounced husband and wife, I said trying to convince him.
My love be anxious for nothing, he said. I guessed he was trying to quote a Bible verse, then I chipped in, is that what you want? And he said yes my love.
I have always promise God to be respectful and obedient to my man in any situation.
So I can’t allow a bathroom issue to wake the sleeping dog of violence in Tee Jan.
Are you surprised I said that? Yes! Tee Jan was a violent man, but through the help of God and some of our pastors, he was able to put a stop to it.
I had entered the bathroom quietly to take my bath. I left the door wide open, in my mind I was trying to use women’s wisdom, but it failed!
Immediately Tee Jan noticed I left the bathroom door opened, he picked up his towel and headed over to the other bathroom.
3 minutes later, I was out of the bathroom, but Tee Jan was still in his bathroom. I guessed I was faster than I should.
So I laid quietly on the bed, with my towel tied around my chest.
20 minutes gone, Tee Jan was still in the bathroom. Then I called out, sweetie what are you still doing?
Do you want to turn yourself to a fish? I said smiling to myself. If you spend one more minute in that bathroom, I will break the door and enter .
I’m coming my love, be calm. He said and finally came out of the bathroom.
What I saw when my sweetie came out of the bathroom was shocking…….
TBC….
Proudly written by 👉 Tee Jan
